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88 times?
I’m sure Chris McKinlay has gotten a good level of press for supposedly “gaming the machine” on OKCupid, but think about this: It nevertheless took 88 times for him to get a great match, and they are not really in a genuine relationship (only a long-distance one, without any result in sight).
It feels like “gaming the device” is actually much more onerous — and a lot more time intensive — than just asking away a random gal on the road, or in a course, or at the job, or perhaps in a club .