Some information; i am a male within my very early 20s. Ask Meta Filter

Some information; i am a male within my very early 20s. Ask Meta Filter

My buddy, we are able to phone her Jill, could be the exact same age. We have been both pupils, neither of us is really a virgin or completely inexperienced with coping with the sex that is opposite.

Jill split up with a term that is fairly long about 3ish weeks hence. Our company is both buddies, not really close friends needless to say but we’re pretty close. In the last 4 months we’ve frequently been spending time going out alone.

And this is actually the kicker, I ACTUALLY DO not need up to now this enter or girl into any type of “boyfriend gf” form of arrangement. The thing I do wish to accomplish is possess some type of casual hook up(s) along with her. I do not genuinely wish to state friends with benefits(Gah, that term is hated by me) but that’s pretty near to the things I are considering. When I stated before, our company is frequently alone together, usually bored stiff, and frequently horny. I possibly couldn’t see this going beyond making down plus some groping/manual stimulation therefore it is in contrast to we might be getting super intimate anyway. We’d also be cool along with it being a single time experience, but just how do we get from sitting here speaking with making down?

Only problems are, (1) how do you start this? I’ve never ever been anyone to have any type of random hook ups before and so I really concept of. (2) imagine if she claims no?